UP Corps of Sponsors Alumnae Assembly

I was never a fan of beauty contests, of beauty titles, even of organizations that exalts beauty.  I used to subscribe to the idea that beauties lack brains, and brains lack beauty.  I thought, since I was treated as an ugly duckling in high school, I lack beauty and I am just all brains.

Then the UP Corps of Sponsors happened in my life.

I was a thin, insecure 16 year old college student when I was approached by a male classmate who happened to be a cadet officer (he recently passed the bar. Congratulations Erick Sta Barbara).  Being the insecure me, I took the invitation as a joke and threatened to hurt him should he insist. He convinced me that it is not the case and so I went and accepted the invitation.  I underwent the 3 level interviews to select the members of Corps of Sponsors and I was accepted as Deputy Corps Sponsor for Operations.  I was taught to plan and execute activities, conduct after activity debriefing, make reports and see how the ladies will be trained in the military and social graces aspect. The life of a sponsor is a charming, exciting, and tiring one.  It is self fulfilling.  We have conducted different medical missions, social activities, and other activities that enriched further my college years.  Those years with the Corps are the happiest ones for me.




Ushering detail, UP Manila Graduation, PICC. Circa 2002


We were told in the Corps that we were chosen not solely because of our intellect but because of how we handle ourselves during the interview. Grace under pressure, beauty, and brains are some of the traits that the panelists look for in a sponsor. I am flattered, yet I did not fully believe that I got the beauty they were talking about. Not until recently.


Me at the UP Corps of Sponsors Assembly, UP Bahay ng Alumni, Diliman Quezon City

I have been coordinating with the UP Vanguards and I have been actively campaigning during freshmen orientation in UP Manila so we can invite more UP Manila students to join the UP Corps of Cadets.  After some time, I was able to get in touch with some alumnae members of UP Corps of Sponsors.  A meeting was held, we made a decision, and we were able to come up with a UP Corps of Sponsors Alumnae Assembly held last March 16, 2013 at the UP Bahay ng Alumni.



The activity started at 11am and we were able to meet and have fun times with the Ladies of the Corps until 3pm.  The Ladies were stressing on sisterhood and the fact that we are all beauty and brains.  I no longer find myself revolting or resisting the idea that I am beautiful, that I am worthy to be called a Sponsor.  I guess, more than the skin deep beauty, I have learned to accept and appreciate the real me, the person who loved and who will always love the Corps.  I am pleased to know that I belong to a sisterhood that values the Corps as much as I do.  I am happy to say that I belong.

After the activity, the ladies went to the parade and were able to troop the line. I had to leave in the middle of the parade but I kept in heart the happiness of being one with my Sponsor sisters again. I remember what the Corps Sponsor 2001-2002 told me, the lady who inspired me to finish the sponsor process (Dr. Mary  Ruth Sanchez), she told me that once a lady becomes a sponsor, she will always be a sponsor.  We do not forget the shibboleths of the Corps neither do we abandon it.  We will always be for Honor, Excellence, and Service.  For it has stood the test of time, and victory made it Strong.  We are the UP Corps of Sponsors.

I will have to thank these kind people who help the UP Corps of Sponsors Alumnae Assembly a Success.

Goldie Miranda
Joann Corbe
Mrs Corbe
Karylle Gallardo-Esguerra
Edrick Esguerra
Wel Garcia-Dy
Roberto Dy Jr
Glenn Llamador
Ms Charmain Doroteo
UPLB Corps of Sponsors Residents and Alumnae
UPD Corps of Sponsors Residents and Alumnae
Faith Roanne Caronan
Atty. Shaina Ramirez
Cong. Lorna Verano
Ms. Dominique Monera-Tabora
Ms. Vida Doria
Ms Riza Baldoria
UP Corps of Sponsors Alumnae from the North America
Vgd. Alex Tamayo,'93 who is our official photogapher.  See more of his works here
Centro Residences by Wee Community Developers
Diliman-diary.blogspot.com
WheninManila.com
AksyonNgayon
Public Information Office

I am just thankful being surrounded by the most beautiful women in UP.

Hail the Corps of Sponsors.

Coming of Age

I am 28. At this age when most people have already started their own families, climbed up a bit on the corporate ladder, or perhaps have started to move into their own homes, I have just started to discover the magic of the concealer, the importance of having a ready black dress in the closet, and the beauty of shaped, waxed, silky soft legs.

Don't get me wrong, i am not as naive as i was when i was 18.  I was never naive, even if sometimes i tend or appear innocent.  I know about sex and relationships, work and career, poverty and sickness just like some of the majority do.  But i am at a point where it seems to me i dont know much. I havent experienced enough. And i haven't done anything significantly grand.

I have climbed mountains, crossed small seas, flown once or twice.  I've gone out of town with a close friend, some close friends.  I have tasted some good food.  And i have experienced the beating of life.  Still i want more.

At 28, when most ladies have settled, I am at a point where I continue to discover what I am looking for in a partner.  I have dated the bad guys and the excitement of rush romances now bores me.  The good guys of the past, you know the smarty pants who fancy the popular girls and never did give me a second look then; or perhaps treated me like one of the guys - they have become emotionally, financially, and spiritually stable.  I like it.

There are times when I tend to think that I am still that skinny, nerdie, awkward teenager that goes unnoticed, but the glances I get tell me otherwise.  I am at the age when my body curves become prominent, the skin cleared of outbreaks, and my hair has been colored to match my skin color. More than that, I have become more confident and respectful of the self.  I have learned to love my skinny geeky past and embrace the lovely curvy woman that I have become.

I am at the age when all I want to do is explore, learn more, be more, serve more and love more.  I am excited to dig into life and breathe wisdom deeper into my being.  I am at this point where I have gotten more conscious of God and His undying Love for me.

At times I still ask why do I feel this only now?  If I were more confident, forgiving, accepting, and loving in the past, my life would have been different and more exciting.  However, there is no proof that it would have been better.  I am who I am now because of my decisions-good or bad.  One thing is certain, God is guiding me through everything and He is making me perfect every single day.

I am 28, but I feel like I am a 17 year old kid who is excited to see more what life has to offer.  It is only recently that I learned to travel, wear dresses, and do my make up.  It is only recently when I learned to respect myself and love myself more.  It is only recently that the good guys start to notice and appreciate me.  It is only recently that I felt that God is presenting me with great experiences -- it is only recently when I put in effort to look and acknowledge it; only recently when I learned to truly enjoy everything.

I have come of age. And God has been patient with me.  This is God's time. My perfect time.

The Broker Series: 5 Reasons I am staying in my Real Estate Business

This year will mark the 5th year since I have decided to be an entrepreneur and work for myself.  It has been a challenging 5 years and I have learned a lot.  Compared to 5 years ago, I am more mature, more responsible, and more open to opportunities than I was.

I haven't heard people ask me why I entered this business or why in spite of the challenges it brings, do I still decide to stay.  I often find myself asking associate applicants the same and the most answer I get is "for the money".  While financial rewards is one of the highlights of the business, this is not enough to push one to growth. So, here I am sharing the 5 reasons I am staying in this business I love - Real Estate Marketing.



Source: http://awakenyoursoul.wordpress.com/2008/07/31/to-socialize-or-not-to-socialize-that-is-the-question/

5.  I love my free time.
I love my free time.  Whenever I am overwhelmed with work and other activities, I try to find the time to meet friends, or go to the bookstore, or watch a movie with my niece.  I can opt to finish writing an article, unwind for 2-3 hours, and go back to work.

There are times when I decide not to work at all.  I can spontaneously visit a friend or meet someone in the afternoon.  My free time sometimes become my work time. When I socialize and the real estate business topic comes up, people go to me. So I end up working and partying at the same time.



Source: http://oxforddistancelearning.com/how-you-learn-by-travelling

4. I love travelling
I like going places and learning new routes.  Studying a property makes me travel. And I can schedule it (I love my free time).

If the location is some place I cannot go and inspect now, there is always GoogleMap to lead me to it.  Going out there learning more about the place and the routes to go there sharpens my geospatial imagination.
Being good with location is one of the basic skills of a real estate professional.



Source: http://mashable.com/2012/12/24/startup-growth/

3. I just love the brain and spiritual effect:  Intellectual and Spiritual growth.

Going out there is terrifying. Specially for someone like me who came from a sheltered background.  But it is the process all of us needs to undergo if we really want to be the best in what we do.  Learning about the business does not end by becoming a Real Estate Professional by getting the license. Learning is a daily habit. A lifestyle. It also helps that we have a healthy self image, a good image on others, and a strong spirituality to meet the everyday challenges our Profession gives us.


Source: http://www.123rf.com/photo_11217639_family-moving-into-new-home.html

2. Meeting new people.

This is the industry where you get to meet lots of people.  People who are looking for a place to call their own, a condo they can stay in, or a house they can make their home.  Young and old, single or married, professional or business people; you get to meet all types of home lookers. And you are there to listen to them, help them get the best their money can afford, and perhaps be their friend.

I have made friends with my clients and it has been very rewarding to see your clients happily move into their homes.  Some have welcome me in their families, offered a holiday stay, and even met my parents.

I also like being surrounded by people of different professions and learn from them.  I am a member of a college organization, a Real Estate organization, and I constantly meet people from different fields. People are magnificent.



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1. The Rewards
The rewards are many - financial rewards, friends, opportunity to travel, learning and more.  It outnumbers the challenges we need to face as Real Estate Professionals.  However, one must not be led to believe that we are reaping rewards without giving commensurate work. Real Estate brokers are one of the most workaholic specie of workers I met so far. It is not unusual to find a real estate professional working 18-20 hours a day, 7 days a week just to meet a quota.  You may have seen real estate professionals offering properties during the holidays when they should be with their families.  It is not all roses and laughters.  Just like all other professions - hard work, integrity, ethical practice, and perseverance are important in this business.

Interested to explore a business opportunity by becoming a Real Estate Professional?

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